Chinese New Year

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Tung Tung Chang! Tung Tung Chang! Streams of red lanterns lights up the street. Bak Kua (dried pork meat) Cookies (Ong Lai Piah your the best) and Kam (mandarin orange) traders appears at almost every nook of the town. The night air is filled with the noise of popping firecrackers. Traditional Ang Pows known in legend to scare away the "Nian" burns viciously when the clock strikes 12. In conjunction with the coming Chinese New Year, Duck2Swan brings you the significance of each food that is served during this festive season.

Family Reunion Dinner
Noodle: Symbolizes Longevity
Be sure not to cut them!


Lotus Roots: Symbolizes getting Male Offspring and Health



Fish served whole: Symbolizes Prosperity


Egg Rolls: Symbolizes Gold and Wealth


Prawn: Symbolizes Laughter and Happiness (Cantonese - Har Har Siew)


Fatt Choy (Black Moss Seaweed) : homonym in Exceeding in Wealth


Abalones: Gold and Silver Ingots symbolizes Wealth


Peking Duck: Symbolizes Fidelity


Yee Sang: The special salad dish! Legend states that the higher you toss
the greater your prosperity. Well for me , its all pure fun tossing it.

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Kam (Mandarin Oranges) : Literally means GOLD in Chinese;
Symbolizes Wealth

Peanuts: Symbolizes Longevity

Pineapple Tarts: Wong Lai - Literally means Prosperity Comes

Lychee: Symbolizes Close Family Ties

Neen Gow (Stick Cakes) : Legend says that this cake is created
to keep the "Kitchen God" from reporting to the Jade Emperor.
A form of bribe. Well for me, its just a sweet glutinous cake!

Loh Bak Gou (turnip cake) : I see this every year during Chinese New Year
and all around the year...so...someone please tell me what does this symbolizes.
*update - the gou, represents one’s job, business, or fortune, and as the cake rises during cooking, one’s position is said to improve* thanks to Jason

Bah Kua, Daging Salai, Yok Kon : All time favourite of the
Chinese Community

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The Chinese Culture is rich and deep. Though it may be packed with superstitions and legends, it is still worth knowing this great culture that Chinese has forged over numerous dynasties. It's a sad sight that I see many of my Chinese friends are either forgetting their roots or just couldn't be bothered with it. Most of them can't even speak any proper Chinese Dialects and even have difficulty ordering food in a Chinese restaurant! It's of no surprise why some will regard us (those that can't even speak a single dialect) as a disgrace to our Chinese race.

Diversity is a creation of God. I urge you to remember your roots and please don't be so "Ang Moh". Some of you may regard being "Ang Moh" is cool and since you grew up speaking English, studying in English, working in English hence you don't give two-hoots about not being able to speak Chinese. Let me tell you my dear friends, being "Ang Moh" is a step towards globalization which will eventually destroy all the cultures that were forged so many years ago.

If we as Chinese Christians don't even know what our culture is like, how then can we preach to the Chinese Community? Who are our neighbours, friends and colleagues? What if they are from a typical Chinese family and if we are dead insensitive to their culture. How then can we preach? Let me bluntly say this to you, if you intend to be a missionary then you have failed. The Lord decreed that we start with Jerusalem then to ends of the earth. Where then is our Jerusalem? Isn't it where we live? Those people that we see daily at work, at school, our neighbours; aren't these people our Jerusalem? I hope you'll understand that I am not throwing the race card here but it's simple. Why God made each of us different? To some Chinese, Malay, Indian, and Sikh? It is for us to reach out to the communities around us. Each of us have our own responsibilities to share the Good News. A simple logic, we can't preach to someone that is only able to understand one language. Example; Tamil. Wouldn't it be difficult for me as a Chinese to share with the person? Or Mandarin. Wouldn't it be difficult for me as an Indian to share with the person? Take thought of it.

So my faithful readers (Chinese readers) of Duck2Swan please don't be ignorant and it is my hope that the Chinese Culture will not end at your generation or your child's generation.

Finally, I would like to wish all of you.
Gong Xi Fa Cai.
Happy Chinese New Year


From Duck to Swan
Signing out at 12:42am - 5th February 2008
 

Homesick

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Homesick by MercyMe

You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

I've never been more homesick than now

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A glimpse of heaven's splendour

Sometimes when we are caught in the storm we tend to lose focus on who our Captain is. Chaos stirs up a doubtful heart. Flashing lightning and ravaging thunder sends us hiding. In the midst of all these madness, we tend to have many questions. The more we ask the more doubtful we get and finally the more shaken we are. We lose sight on our Captain when we start to look at our feet. One of the frequently asked question that is directed to our Captain will definitely be starting with this BIG "WHY?". Why are we in this storm? Why am I going through this even as I am so faithful to you? Why is it not fair that only calamities befall upon me and not unto others?
Why on earth am I here for? Why...Why...WHY?? I am pretty sure we all fall into this same scheme of the heart.

We all know that God's way are pure and perfect. We know that He allows storm to crash in for a reason. Sometimes we seek for this reason and for answers. There is a line that hit me when I was listening to this song by MercyMe.

"Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home"

Even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same. Nothing changes when we get to know WHY. Perhaps we may get clarity but we are still in the storm. Imagine, does it really help if you get to know the reason , when you are already in the midst of a storm with breakneck winds and rain that slams like millions of needles unto your skin. Wouldn't it be better if we take a turn to our attitudes and start looking at the Captain? He stands firm in the storm and He leads us through the storm. If you remember, our Captain has the power to calm the storm. He commands the wind and the waves. Storms are stilled by Him. So, what's your choice? Continue to wallow in a sea of confusion with all the WHYS or choose to look at the Captain that is bigger than the storm.
The choice is yours.

"I love you, O LORD, my strength. The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer, my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge. He is my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold" - Psalm 18:1,2

From Duck to Swan
Signing out at 6:32pm - started 30th January- completed 3rd February 2008

 

The Year that was 2007...

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"I will praise you forever for what you have done;
in your name I will hope, for your name is good.
I will praise you in the presence of your saints." - Psalms 52:9



"For great is his love toward us, and the faithfulness of the LORD endures forever. Praise the LORD." - Psalm 117:2

From Duck to Swan
Signing out at 8:30am - 24th January 2008
 

Without You

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It's been five years since we last heard your voice, seen your smile and felt your touch. You are deeply and greatly missed by us your beloved. Since your departure life has not been perfectly well for us, waves and storms crashed upon us. Waves after waves strikes upon your household. We grew from strength to strength with the memory of you in our hearts. Patching up the sinking hole as we sail upon this rocky boat. We start to wonder whether if the sea is not that fierce or we have gotten better in manning the boat to adapt to the sea. Nevertheless, the guide that you left behind provided us strength to steer through the storm. The memories of you will always be in our hearts. The way you've touched each one of us may be different but yet we know that your love for each of us are special. The jokes that you shared, the laughter that we shared, will always be embedded in our hearts. Friday the 13th, an auspicious day. You will always remind us, it's the day of the birth of Mr.Freddy from Elm Street. 5 Friday the 13th has since passed, yet we are still reminded of your joke on this auspicious day. Friday the 13th has now gone beyond the birth of a freak, it became the day where you left us behind.

Without you,
Life has never been the same

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This post is dedicated to a wonderful husband, father, uncle and friend
a legend, a hero
Phang Yoon Lum PJK
(27th February 1947 - 13th December 2002)
Deeply missed by your beloved
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From Duck to Swan
Signing out at 12.14am - 19th December 2007